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Thoughts on growth, healing, and more from Christine DArrigo


Revisiting Dialectics
[It’s Wednesday morning and I’m reeling. Vacillating between disbelief and rage. Physically unwell. For about a nanosecond, I thought...
Nov 7, 2024


Listing, Again
It’s been a bit of a heavy week here at the mermaid cottage. My attempt to lighten it up, and provide a crowd favorite, is this latest in...
Oct 31, 2024


Saying Goodbye
“My poor mother, who was both a terrorist and a child.” Anne Lamott This perfect gem, from one of my favorite authors, so beautifully...
Oct 24, 2024


Good Enough is Awesome
It’s been about two months since my withdrawal to work on some radical self-care and a major attitude adjustment. Apparently, my Spidey...
Oct 17, 2024


Great Expectations
What happens when your incurable optimism results in profound disappointment? When your Herculean efforts to remain patient and positive...
Aug 8, 2024


Resurrection
As I enter my fourth week of extremely limited movement thanks to my latest gift from the Universe, my gratitude list is topped by my...
Aug 1, 2024


Oblivion
[I’d just begun reworking this older piece prior to my recent dog walking disaster. There truly are no coincidences. My enthusiastic...
Jul 25, 2024


Surrender (Or, Pivoting When You Can't Move)
It’s so easy to be positive when the metaphorical sun is shining. Or at least peeking out on the horizon. Or even when the brutal storm...
Jul 18, 2024


Didn't See It Coming
My little buddy and I were both in high spirits as we set out for a walk Sunday morning. His walks are the highlight of his days, and I...
Jul 11, 2024


Hold The Onions
In a typical mid-century Italian American family, introspection was not a thing. Why would you think, let alone talk, about feelings?...
Jul 4, 2024


The Book of Bad Things
This week I was remembering the short-lived experiment in which the CWP attended a private Episcopal school for third and part of fourth...
Jun 27, 2024


Yes, Please
[Things have been a bit on the grim side here lately, so I’m sharing a lighter piece that I wrote a while back. I was initially hesitant...
Jun 20, 2024


You Asked for It...
My lists have proven to be the hands-down crowd pleaser to date, so this week I'm indulging my obsession. Five Things I Did for The First...
Jun 13, 2024


Drawing the Line
[Instead of divulging all the gory details, I’ll just say that the last ten days or so have been one of those periodic mid-terms that the...
Jun 6, 2024


Inching Towards Forgiveness
An examination of my journals over the last decade (something I’m not brave, or masochistic, enough to do) would reveal that easily one...
May 30, 2024

No Good Deed Goes Unpunished
It’s that time again. Discussing anything related to clinical narcissism and narcissistic abuse can make me feel dangerously exposed (not...
May 23, 2024

I Know This Much Is NOT True
No doubt I still have a way to go, but I’m taking a minute to marvel at the distance I’ve traveled emotionally over the past several...
May 16, 2024


Hidden Gifts
If you've been reading, you know that gratitude has become a cornerstone of my days and my unceasing paean to the Universe. Ironically,...
May 9, 2024


Tripping
I just got in last night (not in the morning—it seems I need to pay a bit more attention to detail) from my long-awaited, outstanding...
May 3, 2024


Don't Count the Candles
[Please note: There will be no post next week (April 25th) as I’ll be on a long anticipated trip. It’s my intention to resume posting May...
Apr 18, 2024
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